Sunday, January 26, 2014

01/19/14 Come Come Ye Saints


Hey madre!

Sorry about the letter last week. I realized after last P-day when I wrote letters, that I need to write to my mission president first, family, then friends.
  (These are questions I asked that she answered)
Are you cooking for yourself? Not really, just breakfast.
Do you eat out?  What's the craziest thing you've tried recently? yes, because it's cheaper to eat out than buy groceries. it's backward here.
Do you have someone who cooks & cleans for you? Nope!
What kind of bed do you sleep on? a bed... that has no springs and is on the floor.
Do you do your own laundry or do you have someone do it for you? I do it myself. we only have a washer.
How do you listen to music? yes. only motab and BYU men's choir that the seniors gave us. that's all that we can listen to.
Did you purchase a blow dryer there?  What about an electrical outlet adapter? I don't need it!
What color is your bike and how are your skirts holding up riding it?  Do you have to wear a helmet? It's blue, red and black. and my skirts only show up a little bit. they're good
What shoes are best for the environment? Crocs!
How often do you use your camera? maybe once a day
What does white-washing an area mean? we're both new to the area.
If I want to send you a letter, do I send it to Chiang Mai or to the mission office? the Mission office!
How soon will you be going back to the Mission Office to retrieve your package? probably in febuary at the next transfer meeting, unless the zone leaders go down for a meeting!
It was hard to hear about your baby experience. I got a bit teary eyed.
This past week has been difficult in contacting, even though we've gone contacting everyday. We've been working hard, and I'm trying to get better at the language. It's funny how God works in mysterious ways,
and likes to give out miracles whenever He sees fit. Yesterday, it was crazy as to how Lolee, who has anxiety, came to church yesterday! That was a miracle in itself. She's getting better at not smoking as much, and is thinking about re-enrolling back into high school. She's awesome! Also we talked to the mission president about it, and we received that there is this step- program as to how to stop smoking! It's practically 82 pages long though! Also the great thing about Lolee is that she speaks both Thai and english. She prefers english, since she doesn't understand gospel Thai. I feel like I have this connection with her, it's wierd but awesome! I don't know how to explain it.

Also we had a few walk in investigators yesterday, that want to be baptized! The Lord truly is hastening His work.

I also got my first phone number/ contact. His name, translated into english, is Fat. Isn't that great? My first contact's name is Fat. It's awesome. Also in Thailand they have wicked long names, and so they receieve a small nickname based on a mannerism of the person. So this one guy for example has a nickname of chicken, because his legs are basically chicken legs. It's awesome. I wonder what mine would be.

Also in Thailand there is this day called Children's day. It's awesome in the fact that the kids are spoiled basically, and that we saw all of the kids celebrating as we went contacting at the mall.

I hope you're continuing in reading your scriptures, because I feel who else can say it better than the prophets themselves? I'm in Jacob, and I enjoyed reading chapter 7. This chapter totally applies to us; members and missionaries. We are needed so desperately in hastening the Lord's work. Before my mission, I would just shrug the missionaries off because I was busy or had school. Now, they are SOOOO important. Even the prophet has requested that the missionaries and members are to work together. How have you been helping the Lord's work?

Also how do you work with senior couples? We've been struggling as a district as to how to cooperate with them. We talk to them and have tried to build a relationship but it's hard. They don't know the language that well, and often rely upon us in church, which makes it hard, because there's so few of us and we are needed to help the investigators and members. They've voiced basically how we need to be more gracious to them and such. We're trying to be better and improve, but basically got told off during FHE with them. It was awkward since they told us how they've felt and such in front of a recent convert who can speak english. It was really awkward and stressful.
Sister Hughes and I read about being patient and having charity. This is sooooo important, because if you love the person, then you'll sacrifice your time, be patient with them, help them etc. Any advice as to how to help them?

I'm also probably going to buy some more clothes, because I can't wear most of it because of political reasons. You can look more into it, since I can't share what's going on here. Just know that I'm safe. Just know I can't have yellow or red clothes. like solid colors. I can still wear that pink pleated skirt with the tiny yellow flowers on it, because it's tiny.

Please let me know what else I can do! Thanks for your advise, and know that I love you!


We've been creating a quote book, and you'd die of the things that we say. So in Thailand, basically it's normal to talk about your bowel movements in public, so that's what I've been doing. I had to let my companion know that I'm constipated. She's like oh that stuff is normal to share. I had to call Sister Senior to know what to do since I can't poop, and I've been taking some of my companion's laxative pills lately. She also said that's normal sooooooo anyways back to the quotes.
Sister Slaugh: So how have you guys been doing this week?
Me: We're pooped. ... Except I can't poop....

We died. Haha I'm sorry you probably don't want to hear that, but please know that I still want to make you smile from half-way around the world!

I love you!'
Sister Woodbury

This is what happens when you get your hair braided in Thailand.

You can call me FLOWER

01/05/2014---HAPPY NEW YEAR~


We're not finding a lot of luck with having our investigators sticking around, unfortunately. Either they don't answer the phone, or they're too busy. Sister Hughes wasn't feeling too well at the beginning of the week, so we couldn't go out and contact. However, she's feeling better now, and we're ready to do the Lord's work. I know that we can at least get 1 baptism this week, and if we really push, 3 baptisms.
 
Lolee, is struggling with smoking. We had her fast, and she said she never felt so much faith before! That was great news to hear from her! We're trying to help her get as much support as she can, especially from her family. I think if there is any lesson Lolee needs to learn, is the enabling power of the Atonement. We've taught it to her, but she just needs to apply it to her life. I know that she can do it though!
I told her that we're all like little infants just learning how to walk. We can't do it alone. It's impossible to try. A baby needs to build support in their back, their knees, hold their head up, and such. It's a gradual process. I told her I can imagine though that God is holding her hand in one, and the Savior is holding the other. They are there literally EVERY step of the way. God and Jesus, are our support. With their support and help we can walk, jog, and eventually run. This reminds me of D&C 10:4.

Literally all I seem to eat is stir-fry, rice, and soup.... Whoo! Except the Pad Thai and the fruit here is amazingly delicious. Seriously though, it's SOOOO much better than the states! That's crazy of all the stuff you've had to eat! They have all kinds of weird stuff like chicken feet, rats.... yeah.... But since chiang Mai is a tourist city, there are lots of farang food, aka american food. Also weird thing... I miss my vegetables. There's peppers and such in my food, but there basically is no such thing as a salad, unless you get it from the grocery store! Whoo!

Christmas was awesome, but New Year's was crazy. We had to listen to crazy karoke Thai people singing to American music. It was awful, and we had to endure it for a good 8  hours for the people leave our street with lots of alcohol, flashing lights, and crazy dancing. It was hilarious to watch, but I feel bad for them too.
 
What'd you do for New Year's?! Hope all is well! Also can you send me some curls rock please! Also what do you want from Thailand?!!
 
Happy New Year!
Sister Woodbury

CHEEZIN'

Riding in an open air bus :-D

12/22/2013---Christmas is coming


Hey Fam-bam!
So this is just a quick letter, but I'm going to be able to skype y'all on Wednesday at hopefully around 8:00 AM in the morning! (this is according to the time in Thailand, there is about a 13-15 hour time difference here so please check your watches!)
Who should I call and contact on skype with? Can we do a multiple call, or do I have to call y'all individually?! Please let me know and give me your phone numbers and contact names! Thanks and I love you!
Oh my goodness, I'm in Chiang Mai! We're in the cold season, and it's surprisingly chilly here, or at least in the mornings! At least I'm not enduring the snow right now though, haha! Also the people here are absolutely CRAZY, HILARIOUS, AND SOOOO NICE AND LOVING HERE! It's basically impossible not to love them here! Everyone always complements me on my language skills, even though I'm barely speaking a sentence! They are so awesome and Christ-like!
I think I was called here because I like to think that I'm like a Khon Thai, but mainly in the sense that I like a lot of the things they do, and I'm basically delirious like them. I wish I could love like they do though, they don't need a reason to love, they just do it! I love them soooooo much!
I'll tell you more later! Merry Christmas! I love you!
Love,
Sister Woodbury

12/15/2013----LIFT OFF to Thailand

 Papi & Turell---IT WAS FREEZING!
 Checking in???  
What?  I'm not on the flight? 
 Proof I'm legit
 Love wearing this . . . 
Reviewing the Itinerary---LAX, JAPAN, then Thailand . . . only about 26 hrs 

12/14/2013---Countdown


12/11/2013 THAT's ALL FOLKS!

Hey Everyone, 

Guess what?!!! The day is nearly here where my district and I are finally departing to Thailand!!!!!!! I'M SO EXCITED! We leave monday morning at 4:30 in the morning! We're using Delta airlines! We fly to L.A. and then straight to Thailand! It's literally a full day of travel there! I'm sooooooo excited!!!!!

Anyways, what are your plans for Christmas, or Hanukkah? Are you traveling anywhere nice, visiting family, or what?! I'm not sure what we really do to celebrate Christmas in Thailand, but I do know that we'll probably be proselyting that day! What other day would be greater to talk about Christ than His birth?!! 

It's been a crazyyyyyyy week! We've been doing service quite a bit. We hosted newcoming missionaries last week, which is why my letters were so short! So sorry! We also hosted senior missionaries on monday! Today though, we were able to clean the temple! AHHHHH it's crazy how busy we are! 

This past week has been crazy! The Canto district just left, and it made my district realize how close we are to leaving to Thailand! I'm so excited! 

Is there anything you want for Christmas?!

I've been trying to serve others, and be better at thinking of others than myself. I got mad at myself one day, because I was having a rough day, and I could feel myself turning inward. I could feel myself to have thoughts like "Whoa is me." and it frustrated me. I was thinking of how ignorant I must be to think that. It's not about me! It should never be all about me! This is a time where I can serve the Lord and God's children! How selfish am I?! 
This month I especially want to focus on Christ. This past week we had to prepare a talk for church on sunday. It was about recognizing the Holy Spirit . I researched some talks and such about it, and as I was listening to Elder Wirthlin (I think), something stuck out. It was about how sometimes we get so caught up in the world, that we don't allow time for the Spirit and the Savior in our lives. I have a hard time to make time to feel the Spirit. Then I also realized or asked myself this question:

Where are your priorities?

That stuck out to me, because my main priority should be to the Lord. It's not about me! I need to be proactive and make time to feel the Holy Spirit within my life. I don't want to be the one to turn our Savior away, just like the innkeeper who didn't have enough room in his inn for Mary and Joseph. We should think like that more often. That would we treat a person, family member, stranger, whoever! like we would Jesus Christ?

My challenge to you is to remember Christ always, and make time for Him in your life!

Know that I love and Miss you!
Love Sister Woodbury

12/4/2013---TRIALS


Also funny thing,
I prayed for more trials, like in Ether 12:27, and the next day sister Embley and I were called as SIster MIssionary training leaders.... Whoo!!! Haha
LOve you!
SIster Woodbury!

11/27/2013 THANKFUL for THANKSGIVING!

Hey mis padres!

Thanks for all the great advice and everything! I'll definitely try to adhere to it! I also sent you a letter! I hope it helps, and I need to add a few more scriptures to it now, but you'll understand what I mean when you receive your letter! :)

That's so cool to hear about you and the family hanging out at the lakehouse! I wish I could be there flying kites! Sometimes it's nice to get away from the world or stress, and lose yourself in something as simple as flying a kite. However, I think we're all like kites. The gospel is the string, and makes sure that we're stable and don't float away up into space. The wind can represent life/trials/temptations. Sometimes life will give you a nice breeze, which allows the kite to just coast along. Sometimes though life will give you gusts of wind out of nowhere, or no wind at all only leading you to fall down or break off from the string and crash somewhere else. However, the person that's holding the kite is our Savior. He's the one that is always there for us. 

For Thanksgiving, we get to do service for the day, and then hear from a general authority! We also get to watch a film! It's such a cool day! Also we get breakfast and lunch in the cafeteria, but we eat a sack dinner! YEAH! haha Oh well, it's better than nothing right?! I'm also singing in the choir that day, as we prepare for the general authority that's coming! I'm excited!

This past week, one of my teachers told us to "bury our weapons", or basically stop doing the things that are preventing us from being the best missionaries that the Lord expects of us to be. I told my teacher I'd give up reading my letters, until I'm back in the residence hall so I can be more focused, and I also mentioned my doubts. I feel that I tend to doubt myself a LOT. But lately I've been finding that the Lord gives us trials not to put us down, although sometimes we need to be humbled, but that He wants us to learn. He's shaping us to be the best person He sees in us. He's also ALWAYS there for us, He doesn't just shove us in the deep end and have us drown. Without struggles, we wouldn't ever be able to tell the good times from the bad times, and we'd never know what our true potential is without pushing ourselves. 

I also wanted to share that a reason why I wanted to serve a mission. Yes, Turell and Jackie, both served missions, but I didn't want to serve one just because they did. There was a time in my life where I made a mistake and it was a total accident. However, I repented of that mistake, but I still harbored that guilt and felt like I was inadequate and not worthy of God's love. I felt like a disappointment to Him. However, it was during family scripture study that we finally came across the answer to my prayers! It was Alma 42:29-31. After reading that scripture, I felt like a burden was completely removed, as I learned that I needed to forgive myself. It also mentioned about sharing the gospel and bringing others to repentance. I don't want this to sound like Woah, Almighty! Everyone must repent!... I don't want people to think of it as a harsh thing. Repentance is a great thing, because it shows how merciful God is in giving us infinite second chances, because HE LOVES US! I loveeeeee the Atonement! I want to share this gospel so that they too can remove the burdens within their own lives, and receive that great joy! 

I love y'all, Keep the faith!
Come what may, and love it!

Love,
Sister Woodbury

11/20/2013 A thousand words . . .

Onward Christian Soldiers


BYU Summer Crew-bies

Jessica!
Princess Aurora---MTC Halloween Style
More Summer Crew-bies---Hyvää onnea! Elder McKnight
Our MTC District
Sister Brooke (mission comp)

11/20/2013 MASS Connections & BYU Summer Crew-bies ---Random/Chance Meetings :-D

Braden Bolton---from the Franklin, MA Ward

Elder Black---this is for YOU, Jessica!


Goodness, I have so much to tell you in so little time! This week has been a bit rough, but then again I had a week filled with having a cold, and being visited by my best friend "Sally". Needless to say I'm an emotional mess! Haha, and I know that some of what I'm feeling right now is to due to the fact of my raging hormones right now.... yay... I'm trying to be more Christlike and serve others in time of need, instead of turning inward, but sometimes I just want to be by myself and let go of some of my stress that way. Is that bad? Is there a better way to handle stress? I don't mean to be a pessimistic person at all, it's just sometimes I'm tired, sick, and need some time to think to myself. Sometimes this is why I like gym, because while some people play volleyball, I'll either go on the track and run for a bit, shoot a basketball around, or practice juggling for a while! Guess what though?! I can FINALLY do a rainbow! It's a miracle!

Anyways, I know that God gives us trials to help us learn to grow, because without trials and such, we'd never learn to 1.)rely on God and Christ, 2.) We'd never gain experience 3.) We'd never be able to tell the fun and wonderful times apart from the tough and difficult times. So I appreciate God's trials in trying to strengthening me. Each trial I get, I have to choose if I'm going to go through it, or run away and get the best of me and never learn from it. 

I know a lot of people ask about the language, it's really slow, but it's coming. It's weird, because when I'm doing lessons with my investigators, words in Thai will pop up in my head as I'm trying to figure out what to say. I have a bad habit though of not listening and understanding very well, and it's something I'm trying to work on. There's a lot I need to work on. However, I know that as long as I have faith, and be the best Sister Woodbury I can be, the Lord will provide a way. I LOVE the scriptures! Seriously, though as I've searched through it, I've noticed there are quite a few common phrases in there: Be patient in thine afflictions (God will soon be on His way to help us), Repent ye, repent ye (always be worthy of the Holy Ghost) Be of Good cheer ( Always be optimistic, because this is a GLAD message!) and Prepare a way (God/Christ have prepared a way in ALL things!). 

I loved hearing your advice and seeing your pictures! Thanks for being the best! Please keep them coming! I love to be updated as to what's going on in your life! Thanks again!
Love,
Sister Woodbury!

11/20/2013---AWESOME ARTICLE--Please read


"THE CHARACTER OF CHRIST"
Brigham Young University-Idaho Religion Symposium
January 25, 2003
Elder David A. Bednar
Good morning, brothers and sisters. I am delighted to be here with you. I pray for and invite the Holy Ghost to be with me and with you as together we discuss an important aspect of the life and ministry of the Lord Jesus Christ.
Last September I participated in an area training meeting in Twin Falls, Idaho. Elder Neal A. Maxwell presided at the training session, and on a Friday night and a Saturday morning he, the Idaho Area Presidency, and other general church officers instructed a group of approximately one hundred stake presidents. It was a meaningful and memorable time of spiritual enrichment, learning, and edification.
During the course of his teaching and testifying, Elder Maxwell made a statement that impressed me deeply and has been the recent focus for much of my studying, reflecting, and pondering. He said, "There would have been no Atonement except for the character of Christ." Since hearing this straightforward and penetrating statement, I have tried to learn more about and better understand the word "character." I have also pondered the relationship between Christ's character and the Atonement--and the implications of that relationship for each of us as disciples. This morning I hope to share with you just a few of the learnings that have come to my mind and heart as I have attempted to more fully appreciate this teaching by Elder Maxwell.
What is Character?
After returning home from the area training meeting in Twin Falls, the first question I attempted to answer was "What is character?" The Oxford English Dictionary indicates that many of the uses of the word character relate to graphic symbols, printing, engraving, and writing. The usages I found most relevant, however, relate to ". . . the sum of the moral and mental qualities which distinguish an individual or a race; mental or moral constitution; moral qualities strongly developed or strikingly displayed" (Oxford English Dictionary Online, University Press 2003, Second Edition, 1989). Interestingly, when we look up the word "character" in the topical guide of our scriptures, we discover that it is cross-referenced to the topics of honesty, honor, and integrity.
Brigham Young emphasized the significance of the Savior's character as he taught and testified about the truthfulness of the Holy Bible:
. . . the Bible is true. It may not all have been translated aright, and many precious things may have been rejected in the compilation and translation of the Bible; but we understand, from the writings of one of the Apostles, that if all the sayings and doings of the Savior had been written, the world could not contain them. I will say that the world could not understand them. They do not understand what we have on record, nor the character of the Savior, as delineated in the Scriptures; and yet it is one of the simplest things in the world, and the Bible, when it is understood, is one of the simplest books in the world, for, as far as it is translated correctly, it is nothing but truth, and in truth there is no mystery save to the ignorant. The revelations of the Lord to his creatures are adapted to the lowest capacity, and they bring life and salvation to all who are willing to receive them. (Discourses of Brigham Young, p. 124, emphasis added)
Brigham Young further taught that faith must be focused upon Jesus' character, in His Atonement, and in the Father's plan of salvation:
. . . I will take the liberty of saying to every man and woman who wishes to obtain salvation through him (the Savior) that looking to him, only, is not enough:they must have faith in his name, character and atonement; and they must have faith in his father and in the plan of salvation devised and wrought out by the Father and the Son. What will this faith lead to? It will lead to obedience to the requirements of the Gospel; and the few words that I may deliver to my brethren and sisters and friends this afternoon will be with the direct view of leading them to God. (Journal of Discourses, Vol.13, p. 56, Brigham Young, July 18, 1869, emphasis added)
The Character of the Lord Jesus Christ
In a message entitled "O How Great the Plan of Our God" delivered to CES religious educators in February of 1995 (p. 5), Elder Maxwell specifically linked Christ's character to the infinite and eternal atoning sacrifice:
Jesus' character necessarily underwrote His remarkable atonement. Without Jesus' sublime character there could have been no sublime atonement! His character is such that He "[suffered] temptations of every kind" (Alma 7:11), yet He gave temptations "no heed" (Doctrine and Covenants 20:22).
Someone has said only those who resist temptation really understand the power of temptation. Because Jesus resisted it perfectly, He understood temptation perfectly, hence He can help us. The fact that He was dismissive of temptation and gave it "no heed," reveals His marvelous character, which we are to emulate (see Doctrine and Covenants 20:22; 3 Nephi 12:48; 27:27).
Perhaps the greatest indicator of character is the capacity to recognize and appropriately respond to other people who are experiencing the very challenge or adversity that is most immediately and forcefully pressing upon us. Character is revealed, for example, in the power to discern the suffering of other people when we ourselves are suffering; in the ability to detect the hunger of others when we are hungry; and in the power to reach out and extend compassion for the spiritual agony of others when we are in the midst of our own spiritual distress. Thus, character is demonstrated by looking and reaching outward when the natural and instinctive response is to be self-absorbed and turn inward. If such a capacity is indeed the ultimate criterion of moral character, then the Savior of the world is the perfect example of such a consistent and charitable character.
Examples of Christ's Character in the New Testament
The New Testament is replete with "strikingly displayed" examples of the Savior's character. We are all well aware that following His baptism by John the Baptist and as a preparation for His public ministry, the Savior fasted for forty days. He also was tempted by the adversary to inappropriately use His supernal power to satisfy physical desires by commanding that stones be made bread, to gain recognition by casting Himself down from the pinnacle of the temple, and to obtain wealth and power and prestige in exchange for falling down and worshiping the tempter (see Matthew 4:1-9). It is interesting to note that the overarching and fundamental challenge to the Savior in each of these three temptations is contained in the taunting statement, "If thou be the Son of God." Satan's strategy, in essence, was to dare the Son of God to improperly demonstrate His God-given powers, to sacrifice meekness and modesty, and, thereby, betray who He was. Thus, Satan attempted repeatedly to attack Jesus' understanding of who He was and of His relationship with His Father. Jesus was victorious in meeting and overcoming the strategy of Satan.
I suspect the Savior may have been at least partially spent physically after forty days of fasting--and somewhat spiritually drained after His encounter with the adversary. With this background information in mind, please turn with me now to Matthew 4, and together we will read verse 11: "Then the devil leaveth him, and, behold, angels came and ministered unto him."
This verse in the King James version of the New Testament clearly indicates that angels came and ministered to the Savior after the devil had departed. And, undoubtedly, Jesus would have benefitted from and been blessed by such a heavenly ministration in a time of physical and spiritual need.
However, the Joseph Smith Translation of Matthew 4:11 provides a remarkable insight into the character of Christ. Please note the important differences in verse 11 between the King James version and the Joseph Smith Translation: "Then the devil leaveth him, and, now Jesus knew that John was cast into prison, and he sent angels, and, behold, they came and ministered unto him (John)."
Interestingly, the additions found in the JST completely change our understanding of this event. Angels did not come and minister to the Savior; rather, the Savior, in His own state of spiritual, mental, and physical distress, sent angels to minister to John. Brothers and sisters, it is important for us to recognize that Jesus in the midst of His own challenge recognized and appropriately responded to John--who was experiencing a similar but lesser challenge than that of the Savior's. Thus, the character of Christ is manifested as He reached outward and ministered to one who was suffering--even as He himself was experiencing anguish and torment.
In the upper room on the night of the last supper, the very night during which He would experience the greatest suffering that ever took place in all of the worlds created by Him, Christ spoke about the Comforter and peace:
These things have I spoken unto you, being yet present with you.
But the Comforter, which is the Holy Ghost, whom the Father will send in my name, he shall teach you all things, and bring all things to your remembrance, whatsoever I have said unto you.
Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid. (John 14:25-27)
Once again the fundamental character of Christ is revealed magnificently in this tender incident. Recognizing that He himself was about to intensely and personally experience the absence of both comfort and peace, and in a moment when His heart was perhaps troubled and afraid, the Master reached outward and offered to others the very blessings that could and would have strengthened Him.
In the great intercessory prayer, offered immediately before Jesus went forth with His disciples over the brook Cedron to the Garden of Gethsemane, the Master prayed for His disciples and for all:
. . . which shall believe on me through their word;
That they all may be one; as thou, Father, art in me . . .
. . . that they may be made perfect in one; and that the world may know that thou hast sent me, and hast loved them, as thou hast loved me.
And I have declared unto them thy name, and will declare it: that the love wherewith thou hast loved me may be in them, and I in them. (John 17:20, 21, 23, 26)
I find myself repeatedly asking the following questions as I ponder this and other events that took place so close to the Savior's suffering in the garden and His betrayal: How could He pray for the well-being and unity of others immediately before His own anguish? What enabled Him to seek comfort and peace for those whose need was so much less than His? As the fallen nature of the world He created pressed in upon Him, how could He focus so totally and so exclusively upon the conditions and concerns of others? How was the Master able to reach outward when a lesser being would have turned inward? The statement I quoted earlier from Elder Maxwell provides the answer to each of these powerful questions:
Jesus' character necessarily underwrote His remarkable atonement. Without Jesus' sublime character there could have been no sublime atonement! His character is such that He "[suffered] temptations of every kind" (Alma 7:11), yet He gave temptations "no heed" (Doctrine and Covenants 20:22). ("O How Great the Plan of Our God," message delivered to CES religious educators in February of 1995, p. 5)
Jesus, who suffered the most, has the most compassion for all of us who suffer so much less. Indeed, the depth of suffering and compassion is intimately linked to the depth of love felt by the ministering one. Consider the scene as Jesus emerged from His awful suffering in the Garden of Gethsemane. Having just sweat great drops of blood from every pore as part of the infinite and eternal Atonement, the Redeemer encountered a multitude:
And while he yet spake, behold a multitude, and he that was called Judas, one of the twelve, went before them, and drew unto Jesus to kiss him.
But Jesus said unto him, Judas, betrayest thou the Son of man with a kiss?
When they which were about him saw what would follow, they said unto him, Lord, shall we smite with the sword?
And one of them smote the servant of the high priest, and cut off his right ear. (Luke 22:47-50)
Given the magnitude and intensity of Jesus' agony, it perhaps would have been understandable if He had not noticed and attended to the guard's severed ear. But the Savior's character activated a compassion that was perfect. Note His response to the guard as described in verse 51: "And Jesus answered and said, Suffer ye thus far. And he touched his ear, and healed him (Luke 22:51).
As individually impressive as is each of the preceding events, I believe it is the consistency of the Lord's character across multiple episodes that is ultimately the most instructive and inspiring. In addition to the incidents we have thus far reviewed, recall how the Savior, while suffering such agony on the cross, instructed the Apostle John about caring for Jesus' mother, Mary (John19:26-27). Consider how, as the Lord was taken to Calvary and the awful agony of the crucifixion was commenced, He pleaded with the Father in behalf of the soldiers to ". . . forgive them; for they know not what they do" (Luke 23:34). Remember also that in the midst of excruciating spiritual and physical pain, the Savior offered hope and reassurance to one of the thieves on the cross, "To day shalt thou be with me in paradise" (Luke 23:43). Throughout His mortal ministry, and especially during the events leading up to and including the atoning sacrifice, the Savior of the world turned outward--when the natural man or woman in any of us would have been self-centered and focused inward.
Developing a Christlike Character
We can in mortality seek to be blessed with and develop essential elements of a Christlike character. Indeed, it is possible for us as mortals to strive in righteousness to receive the spiritual gifts associated with the capacity to reach outward and appropriately respond to other people who are experiencing the very challenge or adversity that is most immediately and forcefully pressing upon us. We cannot obtain such a capacity through sheer willpower or personal determination. Rather, we are dependent upon and in need of "the merits, mercy, and grace of the Holy Messiah" (2 Nephi 2:8). But "line upon line, precept upon precept" (2 Nephi 28:30) and "in [the] process of time" (Moses 7:21), we are enabled to reach outward when the natural tendency is for us to turn inward.
It is interesting to me that one of the central elements of the word character is created by the letters A, C, and T. As we already have seen in the examples of Christ's character from the New Testament, the nature and consistency of how one acts reveals in a powerful way his or her true character. In the case of Christ, he is described as one ". . . who went about doing good" (Acts 10:38). Let me now briefly share with you two memorable experiences from my service as a stake president that highlight the relationship between our actions and a Christlike character.
Early one summer morning I was showering. My wife called to me in the middle of my shower and indicated that I was needed immediately on the telephone. (This was before the day of cell and cordless phones). I quickly put on my robe and hurried to the phone. I next heard the voice of a dear sister and friend informing me of a tragic automobile accident that had just occurred in a remote area involving three teenage young women from our stake. Our friend indicated one of the young women had already been pronounced dead at the scene of the accident and that the two other young women were badly injured and presently were being transported to the regional medical center in Fayetteville. She further reported that the identity of the deceased young woman was not yet known. There was urgency in her voice, but there was no panic or excessive alarm. She then asked if I could go to the hospital, meet the ambulance when it arrived, and assist in identifying the young women. I answered that I would leave immediately.
During the course of our telephone conversation and as I listened to both the information being conveyed and the voice of our friend, I gradually became aware of two important things. First, this friend's daughter was one of the young women involved in the accident. Our friend lived approximately 35 miles from the hospital and therefore needed the assistance of someone who lived closer to the city. Second, I detected that the mother simultaneously was using two telephone handsets--with one in each hand pressed to each of her ears. I became aware that as she was talking with me, she was also talking with a nurse at a small rural hospital who had initially attended to the three accident victims. Our friend was receiving updated information about the condition of the young women in the very moment she was informing me about the accident and requesting my help. I then heard one of the most remarkable things I have ever heard in my life.
I faintly heard the nurse telling this faithful mother and friend that the young woman pronounced dead at the scene of the accident had been positively identified as her daughter. I could not believe what I was hearing. I was listening to this good woman in the very moment that she learned of the death of her precious daughter. Without hesitation, and with a calm and most deliberate voice, our friend next said, "President Bednar, we must get in contact with the two other mothers. We must let them know as much as we can about the condition of their daughters and that they will soon be in the hospital in Fayetteville." There was no self-pity; there was no self-absorption; there was no turning inward. The Christlike character of this devoted woman was manifested in her immediate and almost instinctive turning outward to attend to the needs of other suffering mothers. It was a moment and a lesson that I have never forgotten. In a moment of ultimate grief, this dear friend reached outward when I likely would have turned inward.
I then drove to the hospital with a concern in my heart for the well-being of the two other beautiful young women who had been involved in the accident. Little did I realize that the lessons I would learn about Christlike character--lessons taught by seemingly ordinary disciples--were just beginning.
I arrived at the hospital and proceeded to the emergency room. After properly establishing who I was and my relationship to the victims, I was invited into two different treatment areas to identify the injured young women. It was obvious that their respective wounds were serious and life threatening. And the lovely countenances and physical features of these young women had been badly marred. Within a relatively short period of time, the two remaining young women died. All three of these virtuous, lovely, and engaging young women--who seemed to have so much of life in front of them--suddenly had gone home to their Eternal Father. My attention and the attention of the respective families now shifted to funeral arrangements and logistics.
A day or so later, in the midst of program planning and detail arranging for the three funerals, I received a phone call from the Relief Society president of my home ward. Her daughter had been one of the victims in the accident, and she and I had talked several times about her desires for the funeral program. This faithful woman was a single mother rearing her only child--her teenage daughter. I was especially close to this woman and her daughter having served as both their bishop and stake president. After reviewing and finalizing several details for the funeral of her daughter, this good sister said to me, "President, I am sure it was difficult for you to see my daughter in the emergency room the other day. She was severely injured and disfigured. As you know, we will have a closed casket at the funeral. I have just returned from the funeral home, and they have helped my daughter to look so lovely again. I was just wondering . . . why don't we arrange a time when we can meet at the mortuary and you can have one last look at her before she is buried. Then your final memories of my daughter will not be the images you saw in the emergency room the other day." I listened and marveled at the compassion and thoughtfulness this sister had for me. Her only daughter had just been tragically killed, but she was concerned about the potentially troublesome memories I might have given my experience in the emergency room. In this good woman I detected no self-pity and no turning inward. Sorrow, certainly. Sadness, absolutely. Nevertheless, she reached outward when many or perhaps most of us would have turned inward with sorrow and grief.
Let me describe one final episode related to these three tragic deaths. On the day of her daughter's funeral, this Relief Society president from my home ward received a phone call from an irritated sister in our ward. The complaining sister had a cold and did not feel well, and she basically chewed out the Relief Society president for not being thoughtful or compassionate enough to arrange for meals to be delivered to her home. Just hours before the funeral of her only child, this remarkable Relief Society president prepared and delivered a meal to the murmuring sister.
We appropriately and rightly speak with reverence and awe of young men who sacrificed their lives to rescue stranded handcart pioneers and of other mighty men and women who repeatedly gave their all to establish the Church in the early days of the Restoration. I speak with equal reverence and awe of these two women--women of faith and character and conversion--who taught me so much and instinctively reached outward when most of us would have turned inward. Oh how I appreciate their quiet and powerful examples.
I noted earlier in my remarks that the letters A, C, and T form a central component in the word character. Also noteworthy is the similarity between the words character andcharity--as both words contain the letters C, H, A, and R. Etymologically there is no relationship between these two words. Nevertheless, I believe there are several conceptual connections that are important for us to consider and ponder.
Let me suggest that you and I must be praying and yearning and striving and working to cultivate a Christlike character if we hope to receive the spiritual gift of charity--the pure love of Christ. Charity is not a trait or characteristic we acquire exclusively through our own purposive persistence and determination. Indeed we must honor our covenants and live worthily and do all that we can do to qualify for the gift; but ultimately the gift of charity possesses us--we do not posses it (see Moroni 7:47). The Lord determines if and when we receive all spiritual gifts, but we must do all in our power to desire and yearn and invite and qualify for such gifts. As we increasingly act in a manner congruent with the character of Christ, then perhaps we are indicating to heaven in a most powerful manner our desire for the supernal spiritual gift of charity. And clearly we are being blessed with this marvelous gift as we increasingly reach outward when the natural man or woman in us would typically turn inward.
I conclude now by returning to where I began--the statement by Elder Maxwell in that special training session last September: "There would have been no Atonement except for the character of Christ." It was the Prophet Joseph Smith who stated that "it is the first principle of the Gospel to know for a certainty the Character of God" (Teachings of the Prophet Joseph Smith, p. 345). The New Testament is a rich resource for learning about and increasing our appreciation for the character and life and example of the Savior. My prayer for each of us is that through our study of this sacred volume of scripture we will more fully come unto Him; more completely become like Him; and more fervently worship, reverence, and adore Him.
As a witness, I declare my witness. I know and testify and witness that Jesus is the Christ, the Only Begotten Son of the Eternal Father. I know that He lives. And I testify that His character made possible for us the opportunities for both immortality and eternal life. May we reach outward when the natural tendency for us is to turn inward, I pray in the name of Jesus Christ, amen.

11/13/2013---Photos at the MTC & Provo Temple


 OUR District :-D
A FORTuitous Situation

11/13/2013--Sick Week


Here's elder phung.... he's one of my favorite elders shhhh! this is our mug shot pic


Excerpts from Sister Brynne's email :

Spiritual wise, I'm trying to be more patient and trying to be more understanding of others. It's hard. Then again it wasn't easy for Christ, so then why should it be easy for me? It reminds me of the talk that Elder Holland gave a while ago. Also this past sunday's talk was on one of my most favorite subject: The Atonement. I seriously love this subject. I read a talk by President Uchtdorf about being able to rise again. He talked a lot about repentance and how those feelings of guilt that we carry should bring us to repentance, not turn away from it. We need to rely upon our Savior and how He truly is there for us as our brother, and that He cares and loves each and everyone of us. We also read in Mosiah 14. That chapter definitely pulls at the heart strings. To see how much Christ suffered for us, and only to turn away from Him and His love is the saddest thing ever! This is why I want to serve a mission! To share this glad message and let people know that there is someone out there that has been through what he/she has gone through and understands how he/she feels. We should never feel like we're alone. I also realized that I need to represent Christ more through my actions, because I don't want to be the one to turn away from Him by doing something idiotic. After all He's done for me... goodness I don't even know how to explain it! Ah!

We also heard from Elder Tom Perry and Sister Perry. They gave pretty good talks, about how God is mindful of you and they also mentioned companionships. Companionships are SO important, because instead of doing everything on your own, you have someone else that is there for you and helps give you a second perspective on things. Also companionship study is important because of how we should share what we've learned with each other so that there are two witnesses instead of just one. They also mentioned about how we should ALWAYS testify! Gah! Sister Perry also mentioned about how God knows each of our strengths and weaknesses, and we each have something to bring to the table. I need to hear that more in my life, because I often feel like.... I'm just there to make other people feel good about themselves. It's like one of the baseball teams that's just there to make other teams feel good by providing them their wins. But this is the natural man in me. It's not about me, but about the people I'm serving. I need to lose myself more in the work.

I surely do miss y'all and know that you're in my prayers. Seriously though.
Well know that I love you! Keep the Faith!

Love,
Sister Woodbury

Funny for the day 11/6/2103


11/06/2013



I hope all is well for you, and I'm keeping Padre y Uncle Paul in my prayers! That's so scary to hear that! ALSO THAT'S WICKED AWESOME THAT THE RED SOX WON WHOOOOOOOOOOO!!!! Thanks for the package too! I loved it, and so did the rest of my zone! I surely do miss y'all though! I loved the pictures, and couldn't help but laugh at Padre and his beard! It's like seeing padre in Santa form!! I also thought of "LA-LADY BUGS FLY AT HOME!" when I saw Livie! So cute! I wish I was there with y'all! Thanks for the quotes/stories too!
Also MTC is awesome and flying, as I'm feeling myself grow spiritually and closer to Christ. What I've been learning is that it's not about just having a testimony of Christ, but to truly be converted to Christ, but how does one do that? Well I think it requires A LOT of faith, and a lot of dedication in CHOOSING to do what's right and follow in Christ's footsteps to the best of our ability. We have our agency for a reason, and so we should try to follow Him and think about the consequences of our choices. 

We also received a new elder! His name is Sukhan! He's Thai, and is being fast-tracked to the mission since he's fluent for the most part! He's pretty cool, but also a bit of a flirt haha! We like to tease him about that, and madre, you're guess of my reaction of Elder Arne is ....on point haha! It's not like that, I just think he's a cool elder! Also tell me more about what's going on in your life!? Anything new? Besides the stairs, how's the move? Are you going to be living there, or just live there for now until you find another house? How's it living with the family? Also what do you mean about living in Utah, and how the people are? Do you like it there? I really do miss y'all and wish I could communicate more as to what's going on!

Check out sometime the Character of Christ by Elder Bednar. You'll really like it. I'm trying to follow his words as he talks about the natural man, and when bad things happen to us we turn inward, while Christ turns outward. I'm trying to practice that now, and trying to be more uplifting to others and bring a positive attitude. Everything we do is our choice, and so we can choose to be happy, or serve others especially when bad things happen to us. I feel like we learned about that quite a bit as we lived in Ohio. We can choose to turn inwards and think whoa is me, but really get off your butt and do something about it! It's NOT ABOUT YOU! When Christ was being tempted by Satan when he fasted for 40 days, not only did he reject Satan, but he even sent angels out to JOHN! (If you look at the JS translation you'll find that) Can you believe that! It's crazy! I want to be so much more like Jesus! Seriously though, serving others provide much joy, and I feel better when I serve someone. Sometimes, when I feel bad or think someone needs a quick pick me up, I like to give them a little note to them to help them. Just imagine what the world would be like if we all helped each other, instead of tearing everyone apart because of their social or economic status etc. 

I'm doing pretty well for the most part! We decided to build a fort in our room, and have a district hot chocolate/tea party. It was pretty fun, and we needed some stress relief. Oh my gosh, I can't express how much I love reading the Book of Mormon! I LOVE IT! It's so inspirational, and I'm getting more revelation out of it than ever before! It's so effective, especially when you pray first!